Sensual lover, I believe in the power of energy in objects. We have the ability to create our environment, along with our thoughts, to manifest our most intimate desires. As a result, I often turn to Feng shui if I am feeling a little stuck in the mud. Feng shui is the ancient Chinese practice of arranging objects to create a good flow of energy or chi. Nowhere is more important to have good chi than in the bedroom. A lot goes on in the bedroom and you can do so much to improve it by using a few key ideas. If you are looking to attract a love friend or improve the relationship you currently have, please consider this:
Takes Two to Tango
It is difficult to attract the love we crave if the love space is designed for one. According to Feng Shui, you can attract the love you want by ensuring that there are two nightstand tables, two lamps, and there is basic symmetry in the room. It is also a good idea to have photos or artwork of couples or doubles of things. Avoid sad, lonely or dark artwork for your bedroom. You are creating the love you want by placing objects that are in line with your desires. Be extravagant.
The Place is the Space
The bed is generally the focal point of the room. Bed placement is essential to create good flowing energy. Place the bed in the centre of the room rather than pushed up against a wall. The goal is to create a space that is welcoming and inviting for two people. No one wants to roll over their lover to get out of bed. Make space for two. Additionally, it’s important to not place the bed in line with the door. It will drain energy from you and from your love life. It is better to have the bed facing a wall.
Clear the Clutter
It’s hugely important to clear clutter from under the bed. It’s not an ideal place for storage or unwanted stuff. It will reduce the quality of your sleep and attract undesirable energy (and dust). Keep it clean, in terms of clutter of course.
Toss out the Old
In case you didn’t know, it’s a bad idea to keep gifts and memories of old lovers in the bedroom. It’s time to let go of those love letters and old sentimental things stored in your bedside table in order to invite new love into your life. Additionally, if you have broken jewelry or mismatched holey socks, either repair them or release them. You don’t want broken, unusable things in the place where you are a wild sex goddess (or want to be).
Create Space in Closets
It is our human nature to fill things- closets, suitcases, conversations. Too much space makes us a little uncomfortable or even vulnerable, thus we must exercise great restraint in order to keep spaces open and flowing. According to Feng Shui, it is essential to leave room in our closets to allow for more of what we want. Also if Captain Fantastic sails into your life, it might be nice for him to have a place to hang his hat. This weekend, commit to releasing 1/6 of what is currently in your abode. Watch the magic unfold.
Use Erotic Essential Oils
If it has been a while, perhaps you are feeling anything but juicy. The easiest way to turn that around is with the use of carefully chosen essential oils. Add a few drops of Ylang, Neroli, Jasmine, Sandalwood, Rose or Cinnamon to a vaporizer or humidifier. You could also try placing a drop or two of a chosen essential oil on your pillow. It is astonishing what smell can do to a love space. You will breathe in the oils while you sleep and benefit from their healing erotic vibes. Essential oils penetrate deeply into your cells and change biochemistry to make you so much more desirable. Never underestimate the power of essential oils. Trust.
For more insight on how to use essential oils for sexy time and more, you can get a preview of my upcoming book, Aromatherapy for Sensual Living: Essential Oils for the Ecstatic Soul.
Ok Sensual lovers, please let me know what you are doing to spruce up your love zone. Feng shui is truly amazing and powerful.
Sparkle on sweet ones! I hope it is hot and juicy.
In the light,